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Lillian Nan Haven
1927 - 2018
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Obituary for Lillian Nan Haven

Lillian Nan Haven
Lillian Nan Frazier Pollard Haven, 90, of Picayune, Mississippi died February 28, 2018, at the Bedford Care Center following a lengthy illness. A native of Martin County, Texas, she grew up in Texas; married in California; lived in Vallejo, California, Siloam Springs, Arkansas, Tulsa and Sand Springs, Oklahoma; finally settling in Bartlesville and Dewey, Oklahoma. After raising six children and after her husband’s death, she moved to Cave City, Arkansas, where she married again. After her second husband’s death, she moved to Picayune to live with one of her daughters.

She is survived by one son, Richard (Norma) Pollard of Nowata, Oklahoma; three daughters, Marilyn (Ronald) Norris of Edmond, Oklahoma, Cheryl Andrews of Picayune, and Debbie (John) James of Fort Collins, Colorado, 13 grandchildren, 15 great grandchildren and many nieces and nephews.

She was preceded in death by her parents Lemuel Freeman and Pearlie Elizabeth Frazier; four half-siblings: Robert McKinley Frazier, Winnie Mae Owens, Ste. Jewel Ragsdale, Jessie Thomas Frazier; five sisters, one brother: Rosetta Magdlene Abney, Ethel Aline Abney, Calvin Coolidge Frazier, twin Orillian Ann Nay, Lillie Cendie Stitcher and Vada Roberta Hodges MacDonald; husbands Ruben Pollard and William Haven; sons Eugene Bryce Pollard and Michael Clyde Pollard; grandsons Alan Ray Norris and Kent Wade Norris.

A memorial service will be held at the Picayune Church of Christ March 4 at 6:00. After a funeral service at Stumpff Funeral Home in Bartlesville, Oklahoma, she will be laid to rest at the Dewey Cemetery.
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